Wednesday, May 6, 2009

MORE FORBIDDEN INDULGENCE !

Sex can be very pleasurable when we get in the mood, it can give us a great work out and we are able to express our sexual urges or love for one another. Sex is the most powerful way of communication. You express so many things that you are otherwise not able to express so incessantly. A few tips and tricks to keep your sex life fresh and energetic...

Dont Make "SEX" a routine
Sex is meant to be enjoyed ...it is best served slow and spontaneous... it should not become a routine as you do a 9-5 job... dont have a timetable to have sex.Just let sex flow. Don't follow manuals for everything...be wild, unplanned and regular. Know how to get your partner aroused and in the mood for sex, know the signs and signals when you think your partner might be wanting sex, by being more receptive to these signals you will be able to make more passionate love which is more enjoyable that placing a routine on the task.

EXPLORE New Places
Having sex in different places can be exciting and cherishable experience, try out new places as parks, airplane toilets, hotels, washroom and even in public WC, these venues will add a unique rush and a fear of getting caught while doing something which is bad public exposure multiplies the excitement even more. If you are able to have sex regularly in different places the enjoyment will be greater than having sex in the same place.

Sex Toys
Introduce naughty sex toys into the bedroom, sex toys such as whips and dildo's can add to the fun and excitement, if this is a new area that you are looking to probe into then the new toys will add even more sensation to your love life and spice things up, ultimately you will end up having great sex.

Lingerie
Buy lingerie for special occassions.. buy a new pair and ask your partner to help you wear it.. slowly undress... sport the lingerie and then ask the opinion of your partner.. be playful...lingerie that is sexy and looks great, turns you on even more... men are turned on more visually.. so why deprive them ?


Roleplaying
Consider adding new fantasies to the sex. Dress up as different characters and people.Incorporation of such uniforms and costumes adds to the excitement and makes you feel you are making love to someone else, this feeling of being a player or bed turner adds to the pleasure of sex.

Variation of sex positions
Explore the non conventional and new positions. Lot odf guides are available in the local market as well as online stores. Variety is the spice of life and changing positions will help you explore more pleasure points and ways of exciting each other.

Dirty dancing
Dancing dirty with one another helps your bodies get ready for action... When you are out to a local bar or pub then while dancing... draw your bodies together and whisper sweet somethings in the ear of your partner...Whatever path you and your partner decide to take make sure you are both comfortable with the request.

COMMUNICATION
The most important way of improving sex is talking...plain talking... couples who talk more indulge and enjoy more of sex.. See before you enter into a sexual relation a man needs barely 8.2 seconds to fall in love.. but a woman takes time before she can trust you totally. A man needs to give time to the lady and this is eased by talking her into things... knowing her choices and preferences, likes and dislikes !

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